The Ascendant person feels an unconditional love when the other one is around. Except when one of us is going through any kind of emotional crisis, then we're pretty physically demonstrative. I am not saying there is not a spiritual/psychic or unconscious connection but don't assume he has other feelings than what he has clearly said. Venus Synastry: 12th House Overlay in Astrology - ASTROFIX My 12th-Houser Sun/Gem Moon/Sag BROUGHT OUT MY OWN GEMINI COMPORTMENT, and then I also remembered that I had started out as Twins but that my Twin didnt make it in the womb. ILLUME ASTROLOGY: The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes - Blogger 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. All 12th House relationships are not bad; mine was. I love him, he opens me up to questions I would never put a name to but a part of me just wants to run away where he cant find me. 6 Keeping the Flame Alive. They may feel a strong sense of familiarity or a deep emotional bond that is difficult to explain. inscryption cards. No way, jose. If he truely loves you, he will sooner or later find his way back to you. His response have a huge impact upon me. I don't know if I am able to, honestly.This really feels like karmic bond. Disappointments come because we think there is something more even when the person has clearly said there's not. It was a relationship that brought up many subconscious issues for both, but also very intimate, we shared a lot of stuff wed never shared with anyone before. Venus-Uranus in Synastry - The Astrology Place Trish how did you get over it!?! We have opposite rising signs. which is terribly disturbing for anyone who doesnt want to face things. I feel lost a lot of the time, but feel even more lost and dead inside whenever I walk away from him, but I never stay gone for too long, even though I claim I will never come back. From: Georgia. I never know what hes thinking, which is rare for me. Hi, Heather. Be direct, ask questions, dig deep, ask for proof and confirmation. Brrrrrrr . ------------------Air woman. We also share moon Conj Mars, moon and Pluto Conj & trine. I finally got totally turned off from him and just decided to forget him and put as much distance I could between us, physically, mentally and spiritually. Romance and excitement are part of this synastry contact and it can show a relationship that feels as if it is developing too fast. I dont have other words for that. This person also has natal Neptune in their 7th house and MY Neptune falls in their 7th house. So, know that their insecurities and feelings may get in the way of connective relationships. Each person shares secrets, and even unconsciously. This is why this house also holds our hidden enemies. He doesnt want a relationship but he wants you to feed some unstated emotional void so he keeps you strung along with longing stares and subtle flirtations. I don't know where my venus falls in his chart. And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. Now i know why. Thanks for sharing your experience:) Very psychic this 12th house Synastry, you really feel connected regardless if you are together or not it's like you exist on another plane 0: Very interesting article! Same here. What he/she hates in something, i can see that they do the same thing, but they cant see it. Registered: May 2009. posted June 11, 2013 02:39 PM. To me and my daughter since we both dont have our dads. Maybe my cancer north node and his venus in cancer helps things. It was a weird sort of dance, attract/ repulse. Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. It's the planet of harmony, after all, and it brings harmony and luck to its house in your natal chart. There is definitely potential for dishonesty(especially Mars) so one partner could be dishonest or cheat on the other. Wow . I dont think it was his fault he told me he was going through a lot and I know he was but he asked me be friends which I thought was friend zoning me but he has aquarius descendant and he told me to watch this movie afyer he asked to be fruends where the opening line was friends cant be friends and have sex and he said he wasnt done having sex. more than likely you will see, there is a very big reason:) Often they are a teacher when it's a good person, or you have something to teach them. As a rule, it is generally the house person who feels the energies the most. Right up to this year I have still been battling my feelings in re: to the guy I was totally swept away by. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. It could be a not-so-good thing if you feel vulnerable or exposed or even if you just get irritated from him. Never felt this way in my life. He also has this aspect with my daughter too. Oh yes i read about that but hes not like that at all. We face the same situation when someone touch our 12th house. She longs for a partner who will just let her "be": someone who will go with the flow, and give her plenty of alone time (12th House natal planets often demand periods of isolation). Maybe he bonds with us well because the three if us have gemini suns. Does this mean that the love is just hidden, or doesn't really exsist at all and it's all in my imagination? Long story short I am finally over MY 12th House love for many of the reasons posted by Morag. It's much like a therapist/patient relationship. Also, my sun/venus are in his 10th, moon in his 5th, mars in his 4th. Me and my fianc has this. My ex-12th Houser has Venus/Cancer which made it difficult for him to open up, unless it was totally on HIS terms. As if it was not enough he has moon conjunct pluto in the 5th and Venus square Pluto and Venus trine Saturn. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! Just give it time and have moderately high standards for yourself. (Waving with both hands) thanks much for the updates. Gah! We are from different countries. I keep reading stuff about 12th house and its scary I already have issues but like I said my natal chart is already filled with 12 house placements like sun, mercury, Jupiter, and something else and now my relationship?! But he is confused how I feel this way without needing anything. I can definitely feel the effects of his planets in my 12th, but in your experience is the planet person affected? I wouldnt say its a bad experience but Id personally avoid 12th house placements. There are other harsh aspects between our charts, but overall the more connective and important synastry points overrule the bad. Your not crazy 12th house connections can stick to your bones. Hi Aida, very interesting what you say.. Well you know, Neptune rules the 12th house, which is idealization, so in a sense these people will appear to be our ideal! I kept believing he felt the same as I did, but that for this reason he couldnt give into it. I believe it caused a lot of confusing both for him n I. What activity do you have going on between your S.O. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th. I feel I cannot even hide from him. Idk if its cause its cancer in that house or my super exhausted Jupiter giving me a savior complex but its kinda like familial love like no matter what he always has a place in my heart. I, like YOU much prefer the beneficial planets:), I have someone venus conjunct my pluto in my 12th house . I also have my venus on their south node That's exactly what it feels like. Her Venus is in my 12th house. It's such a surreal feeling. But we do know a lot more about it than we did some time ago. The 12th house belongs to the triangle of salvation or Moksha Trikona while Venus is a very spiritual planet. it doesn't work or they don't like me? We have our moons in each others first houses which for my cancer stellium does a lot, and he has mars and venus in my 7th house. Glad that its OVER!! be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. One is Taurus and the other is Libra. And it is an easy relationship. Venus in 12th House Personality Traits | Ryan Hart In the synastry between my husband and myself, my Mars and Saturn lands in his 12th house. We've been seeing each other for over a month now. We were both unhappily married, I was her manager at work, she was head over heels for me immediately, I didn't even know she liked me for months. I still dont know WHY that occurred . My sun, mercury, Venus and Jupiter conjunct his Pluto in the 12th. It's like the cuddling is saved for when the other really needs it. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. Or they saw things in us that were not really there whether good or bad. Venus Synastry in the Houses - Pathstrology Conjunct Venus' are often found in long term relationships. i do notice that if someone has 12th house moon and im also 12th moon, we mirror eachother. I just listen and really wish to support him.On the other hand, I don't even have to speak, he just knows what to say to make me feel better. OH! It's not of this world, it's spiritual and I don't mean you go to church together spiritual but it's certainly possible. Positively both can help the other overcome their fears, discover hidden talents, or gifts. But when I'm around him, it's like a physical stalemate. The 12th house and Neptune can be very painful, the lingering kind. Im so obsessed with him. As for this guy, hes telling you all you need to know. My Lib Sun and Jupiter falls in his 12th. In re: to the 12th House attractions, not surprisingly, I always attract Gemini natives mostly Lunar Geminis, or those with Gemini strongly paced in their chart; i.e., Mercury, Venus or Mars. and weirdly 12th house does later show the othher person to live in those shoes. You have long-lasting and intense affection for this individual. i guess if the house person is non-scorpionic, or less-scorpionic perhaps, they won't run away scared because they feel they are exposed, lol If the house person is heavy-scorpio people, hmm don't even think aboutt having relationship with this peeps, they will ruuuuunnnn away asap no matter how much you mean to them. Specific to you, the overlay situation might have some play here, but my guess is that theres more to this story. Without remorse, without emotional pain, without what ifs. I've actually read that in terms of unrequited love, the Venus person tends to love the 12th house person, but the house person can't return the love because the Venus person doesn't express their love clearly when in the 12th, and that love isn't recognized in order to to be returned. How is in your case? You will not regret it. Synastry: Planet Overlays in Houses (Transposed Houses) Otherwise we kind of don't touch. Synastry: mutual venus in 12th house | Astrologers' Community He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! I have a venus in capricornso yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out..I don't expect to say I love youI just assume you should know it by my actions but for me on the other hand, I would need some reassurance from my partner. Sadly to say those attractions/connections do NOT work out well and the relationships are of short duration, for the most part. Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. Hey! ive seen it many times in others too. I love them unconditionally, to the point like they are flawless in my eyes. SYNASTRY: VENUS IN THE HOUSES.